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Sex is an important element in marriage and until there is
sexual intercourse between a husband and a wife, the
marriage is not yet spiritually recognized. This shows how
important sex is in marriage.
When you look at how aggressive men are towards sex
you may think that what a man needs from a woman is
sex. Of course, if he has not married you yet or he does
not really intend to marry you what he will need from you
is nothing above your body. But if he really intends to
marry you or if you guys are already married sex is never
what he needs from you - maybe let me say it better;
"WHAT A MAN NEEDS MOST FROM A WOMAN IS NOT
SEX."
Many young girls think because they are sexually active
and experience they will easily be married and have their
husbands loving them. And when a man approaches for
marriage they think the greatest asset they have to show
the man is sex. Others also think once they are giving out
their bodies it means they are giving out the best for which
reason they will be chosen above all.
There is this young girl who is very beautiful and sexually
active. Due to that she thought sex is all that matters to a
man. Ironically, she struggled for long before finally getting
married. Her sexual dexterity could not win her the heart of
a man until out of the blue and reason beyond imagination
a very handsome good man married her. The wedding was
grand and her tears were now gone. Unfortunately only a
year after the wedding the marriage fell on rocks. Within
five years three different men came her way but none
could stay.
The problem was simple. She thought sex was all that
matters so she would never submit. But submission is
what men need, not sex. It is time for our young ladies to
know that when a man is ready to marry he will not look
out for a woman who will satisfy his sex drive but a woman
who will submit herself to him. Excuse my language,
"every woman has vagina but not every woman has
humility." So when you are a humble woman, you are an
expensive jewelry. And a man of integrity will fear to lose
you.
What does the Holy Bible say, "wife, submit to your
husband." The reason is that a man's true love goes out
only for a woman who is submissive. Your beauty cannot
make another woman ugly but your humility can let him
love you above all other women.
Sadly, many youngs ladies in our days call submission as
"control." And you will hear them saying in tiny romantic
voices, "As for me I don't want any man to control me oh."
If you don't want to submit don't think of marriage because
no man in his right sense will offer his love to a woman
whose heart is higher than his height, no matter how short
he may be.
When a woman bows her knee before a man, the man will
automatically bow his heart before her love. And love her
sincerely.
There are, of course, recalcitrant men who will not value
women of humility but I tell you that every true man does
not need sex, but submission. It is submission that truly
makes you a romantic wife. So be the African queen you
want to be but when it comes to dealing with your
husband, play the role of a humble maid. Don't forget that
it is the spirit of humility that has caused many maids to
hijack their mistresses' husbands. Be your man's queen
and be his maid also.
I wish you all the best as you submit in your relationship
and marriage. May God bless you with good marriage, my
dear sister.