» " Things You Shouldn't Be Ashamed Of Doing Or Asking When With The Opposite Sex " «

So many times we try too hard to impress people, and the
outcome is really that bad.. Though i stand to be
corrected, buh in my opinion, i find some things very okay
when one is in company with the opposite sex... Wana knw
them?wink
1. Its very ok to share the bills when you are on a date
with the opposite sex
Now guys and ladies have this mentality that its the guy
dat is very much supposed to foot all the bills on a date...
And then after all the nice time you two spend together,
the guy feels its his right to sleep with the babe.. That
mentality shouldnt be so.. I believe that two matured
people who are on a date should share in footing the bills if
need arises. its so not shameful.. It doesnt reduce ur ego..
2. Its not a crime to ask the opposite sex for assistance
especially financial assistance.
Yeah, sometimes we get so broke in life, even to buy 100
naira airtym is a problem, and u have this bestie who is of
the opposite sex, i really dont think its a crime to ask
him/her for assistance.. Most guys be like, mehn i cant
ask any girl for money, and as d big olodo you are, that
same babe will suck u dry and even ur last card, u will
give to her.. Buh to quit the ego when you are in need is a
problem... Its not shameful tho.. Buh do not make the
mistake of asking all and sundry for assistance, just ur
very close friends..
3. Its not shameful to assist the opposite sex in doing
chores.
Now this is meant for those who r very very close to each
other... You have a girlfriend or a boyfriend and lets say
you two live together, boyfrnd is sick or girlfriend is sick
and you as the partner is very much hale and hearty, its so
not shameful to assist him or her in washing their clothes,
especially his/her undies.. Yeeeah grin i know right..
4: its very very ok to for a guy and a girl to hold hands
when walking in public...
Some people are so so timid or uptight in their character,
even when with the opposite sex, they still feel that
awkwardness.. There are quite a good number of PDAs that
aren't shameful to practice in public like holding hands
while walking, holding each other by the waist, etc.. To me
these aint dat shameful.. Unless you are embarrassed
about him or her in public.. Sometimes, people judge a lot,
their mindset are so so myopic that they see these acts
like immoral.. Please if you are of that category, quit the
habit and mind your business.
5. Its so not shameful for a guy to assist his female friend
or boss to carry their handbags should they feel
incapacitated to do so at that moment
Now many guys find it difficult to help their female friend
with her handbag. She may want to get something or
maybe holding too many things with her hands, its so not
shameful to tell her, hey leme help u with one of them,
maybe your handbag.. It just wouldnt reduce our ego, would
it? wink