Lagos girls are very sophisticated,
approachable and good to be with, but why
are Lagos men going back to the village to
pick their wives? What is it about village
girls that makes them potential life partners?
Or is this just a fallacy?
Here are 10 reasons Lagos men go back to
the village to select their spouse instead of
marrying their Lagos counterparts.
1. Food
Do village girls cook better than city girls?
They say the way to a man’s heart is
through his stomach. Men love food and no
man likes to return home and not meet a
well prepared meal. Village ladies have the
upper hand when it comes to performing
wonders in the kitchen. Those delicacies
that melt a man’s heart and remind him of
those nostalgic past are made real by village
ladies. Every meal is likely to be a sensation
and not the usual rice and bread that is
adopted during bachelorhood, Lagos girls
on the other hand dwell on refrigerating and
microwaving food which does not give the
same result. Some even order meals or
drag their spouse to a restaurant. Lagos
men would rather go for a home-made
meal prepared with fresh ingredients and
spiced with condiments rather than keep a
daily date in the restaurant.
2. Attitude
Village ladies grow up with the right
orientation and attitude which is what most
Lagos men desire. Little attributes like saying
‘good morning’ and ‘thank you’ can go a
long way to make a man happy. Village
ladies are brought up with a drilling
knowledge of respect and attitude. Lagos
ladies exude behaviours that raise doubt
about their attitudes and orientation and
men try to avoid ladies without the right
attitude.
3. Submissive
Either by nature or nurture, men feel they
are superior to women and like it when
they get a lot of respect from women. No
man wants to marry a woman if he knows
she will challenge his superiority. Lagos
men know that most Lagos ladies have
been so exposed to similar and equal life
styles that can lead to tension in the home.
Men know that village ladies pose no threat
when it comes to class and level and feel
more comfortable with that rather than
engaging in a class tug of war with a Lagos
lady.
4. Home
Village ladies have very homely qualities
that make a man happy. They know it is
their duties to do the dishes, laundry, cook,
make the home and still take care of the
children. Lagos ladies however feel that the
modern world in its unwritten law desire
men to also help in the house chores and
not many Lagos men are adept at doing
that. With a village lady however, they is
not question about who will do the house
chores.
5. Career
Perhaps city ladies have careers that make
them to busy for their homes
The issue of career is always a big problem
to men. As much as Lagos men love
successful women, they dislike it when a
woman’s job becomes her priority and he
his relegated to the second position. The
higher a woman goes, the more a man
finds her unapproachable. Village ladies are
very enterprising instead and know how to
combine the home with the family well
which is what Lagos men prefer.
6. Beauty
Who is more attractive, city girls or village
beauties?
Lagos ladies are very attractive but men
have discerned the difference between
natural beauty and the pancake and lipstick
beauty. Lagos ladies are very adept in
transforming themselves into angels that it
would be difficult to tell the difference
between the ‘former and later picture’.
Lagos men know they are seeing the real
picture when they meet a village lady and
not a black-to-white transformation that is
typical of Lagos ladies.
7. Understanding
Village ladies are cool-headed and have
learnt to tame their emotion so as to allow
them understand their spouse. Lagos men
like it when a woman understands
situations without asking too much
questions. Lagos ladies though educated
and intelligent sometimes lack the basic
sense required in understanding the mood
and turmoil of a man and this can lead to
tension when they cannot act appropriately.
Lagos men would rather marry a village
lady knowing that there is a telepathic
understanding between the two of them.
8. Economical
Village ladies understand moderation and
have learnt the skills to economise. Lagos
men know that the city has its ups and
downs and like it when a woman can make
do with what is available. Lagos ladies find it
difficult to deal with less than they have
been exposed to and some can even raise
hell if they do not get what they are used to.
Lagos men like the fact that the humble
upbringing of most village ladies equips
them for any situation whether rain or
shine.
9. Fidelity
Are village girls more faithful than city girls?
The Lagos lifestyle is a wild one and most
ladies in the city have been swept away by
the tide. Some women find it difficult to deal
with the strength and capacity of their
husband because they have been exposed
to different escapades. Ironically, it is the
same men who engage these ladies who
know that it will be dangerous to have them
in the home. They feel that their already
explored sexuality might pose the possibility
of marital infidelity. They feel more
confident in marrying village ladies who to
an extent can guarantee fidelity.
10. Wife material
Who really makes a better wife, village girls
or city girls?
Wife material is an expression used to
describe a lady that encapsulates all the
qualities that a man wants in a woman.
Lagos men try to select a woman with wife
material when they eventually want to get
married. They feel that Lagos ladies have
little or no wife material and therefore cast
their nets in the village where they are likely
to find ladies who have yards and yards of
wife material!
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